With another school year over, it can be a reflective time
of year (especially if you’re graduating). You think back on all of the
accomplishments, the letdowns, the highs and the lows. It’s easy to feel a wide array of emotions as
well – everything from relief to joy to pride, to sadness and disappointment
and everything in between. It can be overwhelming.
What can make this transition time so difficult is the
pressure – there are so many heightened expectations during the high school
years to make the most of the supposedly best years of your life.
I think that this kind of pressurized, expectation-building
thinking needs to stop. As someone who didn’t particularly enjoy high school, I
remember leaving grade 12 wondering if I should have tried harder to have that indefinable
“time of my life” that everyone always talked about.
That’s not to say that I didn’t have highs in secondary
school, but there were lows, too. High
school was a memorable time in its own way, but it’s foolish to amp up that
period of your life when you still have a lot of living ahead of you! Maybe I
want my 30s, or my 40s, or even my 80s to be the best decades of my life – and
they easily could be! Your happiness is not reserved for any single era of your
life.
So…if you have finished another year of school or have
graduated and are feeling confused or disappointed in any way – don’t let it
get to you. Good things in life happen in every decade, not just when you’re
young. The best times are yet to come!